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SIMPLIFYING AND UNDERSTANDING LOVE LANGUAGES

To begin with, what is love language? In simple words, it is the action of expressing “how you love” and “how you want to be loved”.  Relationships most times is a ‘juicy’ topic to always come across, which reveals how important love and friendship is to us. It is then very crucial that we understand ours and our partner’s love language. In cases where you are not exactly sure what your love language is, you need to be more aware and attentive to your partner’s needs because they tend to be your mirror to understanding and revealing what your love language could be. Being single or married has little to do with whether you need to feel loved or not! Everyone has a human desire for wholesome and unconditional love in all relationships.  There are officially five(5) ways to express and receive love; through Acts of service, Physical touch, Words of affirmation, Receiving gifts and spending quality-time together. Each of these is important and expresses love in its own way. Learn

BATTLING WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM?

Self esteem is used to describe an overall sense of self worth or personal value, it could also be a personality trait which means it tends to be stable and enduring. There are two types of esteem;high and low. Some persons place their esteem in a very high place, while others battle with low self esteem.  People battling with low self esteem find themselves in that space due to some threatening life events such as anxiety, trauma or abuse, divorce,failed relationships, mood disorders such as depression, moving on, changing locations, poor performances in school, unrealistic goals, influence of friends, unsupportive parents are also a major factor, some of these failed events tend to get the better version of people battling with low esteem.  Low self esteem is a personality trait that can ruin you in a very bad way if you don’t find the strength to get pass it. If you are a frequent reader to this page, you will realize I very much like indulging myself in my write ups so as

OVERCOMING THE POWER OF FEAR

Have you ever been afraid of something? Do you know the feeling when fear makes your whole body shiver? If you are reading this right now, you know for sure we all have FEARS. It is undeniable that humans are motivated by different things, yet fear is one of most "powerful" motivators creeping our existence.  Some people are born with fears, while others develop it from experiences, Inadequacy, uncertainty, losing loved ones, failure, rejection, change, failed marriage, relationship or friendship, also fear of not being good enough, smart or courageous that targets our self-confidence, amongst others are also fears we were born with or developed along the "way".  Our very deepest fears are exactly what keeps us away from revealing who we truly are. Personally, I allow anxiety and fear get the better of me. I am scared of the unknown, which is why I get so worked up.Fear happens to be a vastly personal experience, is basically that which I do not want to fac