OVERCOMING THE POWER OF FEAR

Have you ever been afraid of something? Do you know the feeling when fear makes your whole body shiver? If you are reading this right now, you know for sure we all have FEARS. It is undeniable that humans are motivated by different things, yet fear is one of most "powerful" motivators creeping our existence. 

Some people are born with fears, while others develop it from experiences, Inadequacy, uncertainty, losing loved ones, failure, rejection, change, failed marriage, relationship or friendship, also fear of not being good enough, smart or courageous that targets our self-confidence, amongst others are also fears we were born with or developed along the "way". 

Our very deepest fears are exactly what keeps us away from revealing who we truly are. Personally, I allow anxiety and fear get the better of me. I am scared of the unknown, which is why I get so worked up.Fear happens to be a vastly personal experience, is basically that which I do not want to face, no matter how many times it keeps knocking in my face or dragging my feet to the mud.

If you have ever been afraid of doing or overcoming “that” which scares you, I hope this is the time you get it over with. Mind you; addressing our innermost fears is certainly not something that will tend to come by or flow like reading articles, in-fact it is some battle you will likely have to push yourself through with your mind and existence. Nobody says it is easy, but the first step to allowing those fears lurking in the dark recess of your mind is to realize that any fears that creeps inside of you only exist in the darkest recess of your mind. They certainly do not live out here in the daylight of the physical universe. 
Some ways to overcome these things could be to play by your strength,where they lie and where they do not, also having to engage group therapy sessions, seek and discuss feedback, be self aware and honest, show empathy and know your team. 

In most cases, our very own fears tend to be the very enemy that stops us from experiencing the wonderful things on the other side of life or more-so hinders revealing our true identity. Therefore FEAR IS NOT AN OPTION!

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