The relationship struggle with the opposite sex

Why Do Men Cheat? Will forever be an unconquered question 

Ladies you have heard "A Man Is Going To Be A Man" that statement is just another excuse for men to cheat. Don't believe that statement. A good man doesn't cheat. Do we still have good men?
Evan Davis once said: "We are more likely to cheat if we see others doing so we tend to conform to accepted norms of reasonable behaviour rather than adhere to strict rules".
So much for the myth that for men, cheating is all about sex; At least 8% of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. Our culture tells us that all men need in other to be happy is good sex, An author once said:"But men are emotionally driven human beings too. They want their wives to make them feel appreciated and understand how hard their trying to get things right.
Although, the problem is that men are less likely than women to express these feelings, so you won't always know when your man is in need of affirmation. Most men consider it unmanly to ask for a pat on the back. Which is why their emotional needs are often overlooked. But you can create a marital culture of appreciation and thoughtfulness and once you set the tone he is more likely to match in.
An undergraduate (NameWithHeld) tells us why he thinks men cheat" I think there are few reasons men cheat it could be there good looking and weakness there as having a lot of females throwing themselves at them and the guys give in." He stated.
Another source (NameWithHeld) said"It could be from lack of attention, showing him the love he deserves, so he goes out to find solace from another woman".
A lady in her early twenties said "It takes two to cheat but it happens because men want to know if they still got it in them". (NameWithHeld) a man in his early 30's said:"The main reason is biology, at the very beginning of the human race our numbers were little, there weren't enough humans so something had to be done and part of it is impregnating our DNA with the desire to be with multiple partners to insure survival of the species and now that we are billions in number we don't need that anymore but is still part our DNA anyways,call it a flaw in our design".he ended.
However, been around friends who stray makes cheating seem normal and legitimizes it as a possibility. The message he is subconsciously telling himself: My friend is cheating on his wife, I guess even the best of us do it. You can't simply ban your husband from Mr A because you simply feel Mr A is cheating on his wife.
28 year old business woman "But men don't cheat because they can, men cheat because they must, because they need to. This is the male struggle",she said.
However recent survey shows that men tend to cheat due to emotional disconnection with their partner,lack of intimacy, feeling unwanted by their spouse and sex. Men generally do want sex and the more the better. It is the only way they feel reconnected with their partner they also feel appreciated and wanted.
Although it could be that men cheat due to inadequate sex, the feeling that you have known each other too well and lack of connection with their spouse, sex is the first item plus physical pleasure that allows men focus completely on the present moment.

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